This novel was my choice for my book club for 2026. We each chose one book and this was mine. I chose it because it’s a book that would appeal to a wide range of readers. Here is my book review Heartwood by Amity Gaige.
Appalachian Trail, Maine
The setting for this book is beautiful Maine, one of my favorite places in the USA. Gaige beautifully describes the nature of the Appalachian Trail, as we get to know details about missing hiker, 42 year old Valerie Gillis. The search and rescue team looking for Valerie is headed by Game Warden Beverly, who has the auspicious title of the first women to hold this post in Maine.
Female Leads
Through out this suspenseful novel the author blends perspectives and story-lines back and forth of three unique women; Valerie the missing hiker and her personal struggles with self, Beverly the Game Warden and her own challenges in her career and personal life, and Lena an elderly women using her computer “friend” to combat loneliness.
These three women will become connected in a surprising suspenseful thriller in the Maine woods.
Pieces of the Puzzle
Without giving too much away, I recommend this novel for it’s interesting setting and character development. Themes of survival, self-confidence, mother/daughter relationships, marriage, career, emotional depth, midlife and the will to live. This is the first novel I have read by Amity Gaige and I found her writing engaging and easy to read.
Someone asked me recently why we are traveling through Mexico? She phrased the question this way; Why are you are spending so much time in Mexico because you usually go places more exotic? Wait. What? If you are a long time follower of this blog, you will know we go everywhere, including Mexico. I’m aware that many Americans travel to Cancun, Cabo, Mazatlan, Puerto Vallarta…beach resorts. But our favorite places in Mexico are in the interior, where you can find “exotic”, beautiful, delicious, historic cultures and cuisines. And this is why we took a week to Visit San Miguel de Allende Mexico, Heaven on Earth in the Picacho Mountains.
View of San Miguel de Allende from our hotel rooftop
Where is San Miguel de Allende?
San Miguel de Allende (SMA) is located in Central Mexico. Many visitors to San Miguel take a luxury bus from Mexico City, about 4 hour drive. We however flew into Queretaro International Airport coming from Merida. Queretaro is the major airport servicing SMA and the Guanajuato region. We hired a driver to take us the hour and a bit to San Miguel.
Located in eastern Guanajuato, Mexico, within the high-altitude and dormant Trans-Mexican Volcanic Belt San Miguel’s elevation approximately 1,910 meters (6,270 ft). It is characterized by a semi-arid, temperate climate, rugged terrain with several surrounding peaks, and a position on the Laja River tributary.
San Miguel de Allende is in the Guanajuato region of Central Mexico
The coldest time of the year in San Miguel de Allende is typically late December through January, with January being the coldest month overall. During this period, average nightly lows drop to around 36 F with highs in the low to mid 70’s F. During our January visit we saw one overnight of 46 F and high of 77 F. May is generally considered the hottest month, with average highs around 84°F–88°F (29–31 C). While days are hot, evenings remain relatively comfortable, though nighttime temperatures increase, with lows in the mid-50s°F
Visit San Miguel de Allende Mexico
The mild mountain temperatures make SMA a hotspot for American and Canadian visitors escaping the cold northern climate. A good reason to Visit San Miguel de Allende Mexico.
Long and Fascinating History
Founded in 1542 by Fray Juan de San Miguel as a strategic outpost on the silver route, San Miguel de Allende evolved from a 16th-century Spanish garrison into a prosperous 18th-century colonial center. It played a critical role in the Mexican War of Independence, ultimately becoming a UNESCO World Heritage site renowned for its preserved baroque architecture and vibrant arts scene.
Former home of wealthy merchant today this beautiful building is a bank and museum
The UNESCO World Heritage Site designation did not happen until July 8, 2008, at a time when many of the historic structures were about to be modernized. The designation, which includes the nearby Sanctuary of Jesús Nazareno de Atotonilco, was awarded for its exceptional 16th-century Spanish colonial architecture, cultural integrity, and its historical role in the Mexican War of Independence. The Centro area of SMA is now preserved.
Colorful architecture and culture
There is much more history to this beautiful city and I recommend you explore with a historian. We did so with Elise Torres, who helped us understand the Spanish, indigenous and slave history of the mountainous region. Consider starting with a GPSMyCity walk on your own, but learn much more with a local guide like Elise at Taste of San Miguel. To be honest, we were not impressed with the Museo Historico and recommend you spend time with a guide instead.
Templo del Oratorio San Miguel
Jardin Allende
The main, central plaza in San Miguel de Allende is popularly known as El Jardín (or Jardín Allende), located directly in front of the iconic Parroquia de San Miguel Arcángel. It serves as the city’s vibrant, tree-shaded heart, surrounded by shops, restaurants, and historic colonial buildings.
Always something fun happening around the Centro Plaza and Jardin Allende
Locals, visitors and nightly mariachi bands make this beautiful park the place to be. With spokes of streets off in all directions, you can find beautiful shops, delicious restaurants and historic places surrounding Jardin Allende.
Music every evening
Clean and bright and cheerful Jardin Allende
Parroquia de San Miguel Arcángel
Often referred mistakenly as a cathedral, the Parish of San Miguel Arcangel is not the oldest, but certainly the most iconic structure in San Miguel de Allende. All walking tours will include this incredibly beautiful structure, but here is a bit of history to share I found online;
At night it is just spectacular
“Originally built in the late 17th century with a modest facade, the Parroquia de San Miguel Arcángel in San Miguel de Allende was famously transformed in the 1880s by indigenous mason Zeferino Gutiérrez. Inspired by European Gothic cathedrals and working from postcards, Gutiérrez designed the iconic, pink limestone neo-Gothic spires by drawing in the sand with a stick for his workmen. This stunning, soaring structure, which serves as the heart of the UNESCO World Heritage town, represents a unique blend of local craftsmanship and European inspiration, instantly recognized as the symbol of the city.”
The detail of this structure is incredible
View from our terrace at our hotel
It’s really important that you see this church at all times of the day (especially after dark) to really appreciate the magnificence of the pink local stone and design.
For a unique and colorful view of the Parish, view it from Aldamo Street, one of the most colorful streets in all of San Miguel de Allende.
Aldamo Street is popular photo stop for visitors
Mercado
As in every city we visit, we enjoy a wander through the local Mercado. In San Miguel we visited the Mercado Ignacio Ramirez, a colorful but not huge market for the locals. It’s a great place to wander and photograph the colorful produce, meats and flowers. I also recommend having lunch or a snack at the many local booths.
Mercado Ignacio Ramirez
Colorful and busy spot to enjoy
We also visited the Mercado de Artesanias, a very large market of local artisans. Overall SMA is more expensive than many Mexican cities, including for locally made crafts. However, we found the prices at the Mercado de Artesanias less expensive than in the shops near the Jardin Allende.
Mercado de Artesanos
Off the Beaten Path
Our week long stay gave us time to wander beyond the center and we loved some of the discoveries we found. This is the kind of city you really want to take some time to get lost, although it is also laid out mostly in a grid, so you can’t get too lost. In our wanderings we found these incredible spots;
Colorful hidden gems throughout this magnificent city
One of the most incredible places we visited, is this fantastic cultural center and library of San Miguel. Providing library service to both locals and visitors (with a large English section) the Biblioteque is located in a former Hogar de Nuestra Señora de Santa Ana. The beautiful building is 18th-century, founded by Father José Hipólito de Aguado as a home for women. Expropriated in 1862 during the War of the Reform, the structure later served as a town market before becoming the library’s home in 1958. Check out the wide array of classes, readings, children’s activities, concerts, theater and more.
The Biblioteque gift shop is a work of art, and sells locally made products
Murals Guadalupe
I saw a reference to Guadalupe Street somewhere, but did not find much information in any of the blogs or tourism info. So we decided to just go looking for what I believed to be an artist neighborhood. And we found it. Guadalupe is a small, residential neighborhood outside the Centro to the north, that is home to a variety of beautiful and interesting murals. Because it is outside the UNESCO area, the murals are allowed. Walls and fences and gates of houses and businesses are home to colorful and fun murals. Definitely worth a walk about.
I love the broom coming out of her eye, a woman had been sweeping as we arrived
On the same day we wandered into the Murals Guadalupe we also stumbled upon the Museo la Esquino (Toy Museum). This incredible museum is not listed in any of the tourism sites I explored, and it was one of the best museums I have been in recently. Unfortunately no English, but there are guided tours you can book ahead. We explored this remarkable collection of both old and new toys from around the country, and marveled at some of the intricate work by artisans and local people. An absolute must see when in San Miguel de Allende.
Museo la Esquino was a delightful surprise
So much to look at
Many handcrafted little gems in this wonderful toy museum
Another place not enough visitors to San Miguel see is the Charco del Ingenio Botanical Gardens. Perched on a hill high above the city, you can easily take a taxi or an Uber. But you know us…we walked! Straight up! It was a work out but worth it.
The arid mountainous region is home to a vast array of cacti
We visit botanical gardens around the world, most are usually manicured collection of both indigenous and plants from around the world. Others, like the Charco del Ingenio, is all native, with trails and signage in a natural setting. The gardens are expansive, include a reservoir and a canyon too! You will also find an stunning view overlooking the city below.
The reservoir is home to many birds
They grow ’em big
During our visit we enjoyed identifying seven new-to-us birds, as well as several other unique birds to the arid mountainous region. Entrance fee is only $5 USD. Don’t miss this walk in nature.
Do not miss a visit to Charco del Ingenio Botanical Gardens
Things For Our Next Visit
We did not see everything. And we are intrigued to return for a longer stay. There are more hiking trails we could explore as well as horseback riding. The historic town of Delores is nearby and is said to be the site of the Mexican Independence birth.
The UNESCO Sanctuary of Jesús Nazareno de Atotonilco is located in the small village of Atotonilco, about 7 miles (14 km) north of San Miguel de Allende in the state of Guanajuato, Mexico.
Colorful sites at every turn.
Additionally from December through March, the mountainous area about four hours from SMA is home to the remarkable, annual, return of the Monarch Butterflies. A guided tour is all day (up to 14 hours) so we chose to save this for when we next Visit San Miguel de Allende Mexico.
Food Glorious Food
Cooking Class And More
One of the best things I did while in San Miguel de Allende is take a cooking class with Azteca Entertainment and Chef Miguel. As you know I love taking cooking classes all around the world, and of course you can never go wrong with Mexican food. Chef Miguel was such an enthusiastic and knowledgeable teacher as he guided me and five other ladies from the USA through an amazing four hours of cooking and eating. We made Mole (MOH-lay), and the recipe was less intimidating than some I have learned. Our class also included traditional Mexican Rice, and two salsas. We enjoyed chocolate water (something new to me) as well as lots of delicious local wine.
Slowly infusing all the flavors
On my next visit I would also consider Azteca Entertainment for a Vineyard Tour with Food (see website) and possibly even a chef’s dinner. If you plan a visit to San Miguel please do not miss any of these experiences with Chef Miguel and Azteca Entertainment.
Thank you Chef Miguel!
A beautiful kitchen for cooking
Delicious Mole Enmolada and Mexican Rice
Where to Eat
We ate exceptionally well while in San Miguel de Allende. Here are a list of my favorites for your consideration;
Bastardo – casual fresh delicious in a hidden garden two blocks from the center.
The best cauliflower I have ever eaten
Beautiful beet and yogurt salad
B’ani Rooftop – Rooftop dining is popular in San Miguel because the way the city is perched on a mountain. We had an outstanding fresh grill here that we shared on a beautiful day. Amazing
Cafe de la Parroquia – On our walking tour we enjoyed a lovely light lunch at La Valise and the guacamole was the best
Pollo Tostado
Excellent guacamole
La Choperia – while watching American Football one night we enjoyed a giant burger at La Choperia, along with a lot of other screaming American football fans.
Giant burger at La Choperia
La Luna Terrazzo in the Rosewood Hotel – the place to go for stunning dinner with a sunset view, this fine dining restaurant was a bit of splurge for us, but we enjoyed lovely cocktails, pasta and wine with exceptional service.
Perfect sunset spot La Luna
Local Mexican wines are surprisingly delicious
Tostevere – this hidden gem in the lower area of the Centro is tiny. Reservations are recommended, but we managed a table and were so grateful we chose this as our final dinner. Outstanding food and service, fresh and delicious. I highly recommend.
Spectacular beet and greens salad
Pulpo Tostada
On point grilled vegetables
Where to Stay
We stayed in a lovely boutique hotel called Casa Maricela, about two blocks from Jardin Allende. It was on a quiet street and included an incredible breakfast. One of the most amazing things about Casa Maricela was the rooftop terrace. We enjoyed it so much morning, noon and night. So grateful we chose this lovely property. We paid about $80 USD per night.
The beautiful view from the terrace at Casa Maricela
Very comfortable room with great storage
Every morning a delicious breakfast
Visit San Miguel de Allende Mexico
I have heard about this town for many years and I am so glad we finally got to visit San Miguel de Allende Mexico. We definitely were smitten, and it’s easy to see why so many Americans and Canadians come here for the winter. Perfect weather, amazing food, great culture and beauty for miles. I certainly think we will come again and stay longer. Thank you for reading my post Visit San Miguel de Allende Mexico.
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Family dynamics and the truth lead the plot in this uniquely written Booker Short List novel by Katie Kitamura. Here is my Book Review Audition by Katie Kitamura.
A Puzzle
Kitamura tells this story in multiple narratives between two characters who drive the plot. It opens in a coffee shop where a well respected actress is dining with a much younger attractive man. The reader is left to ponder what exactly is going on here? When the women’s husband comes into the restaurant, but apparently doesn’t see her, she is left to wonder who is hiding what from who.
Family Dynamics
The plot leaves you hanging but eventually it becomes clear that the actress is hiding a secret from her past. Keeping that secret from her husband as well. The young man is possibly her son…but the narrative flips between chapters and the reader is left to figure out what is the truth in this women’s story.
Book Review Audition Katie Kitamura
This short novel (only 197 pages) left me flat, but it’s a quick read and some people might enjoy Kitamura’s work. As I mentioned in an earlier review, I am less than enamored by the 2025 Booker Award and shortlisted novels.
Someone asked me recently how many UNESCO sites we have visited? Oh my goodness. A LOT. Yes I should try to add that up, but there are thousands and thousands and we have certainly been blessed to see hundreds. And Merida Yucatan is new addition to the list. We had five days in this beautiful city, and here are my recommendations, Merida A Cultural Gem in Yucatan Mexico.
Enjoying Plaza Mayor in Merida and the unique confident or kissing chairs through out the city
The Mayans
I have been intrigued by the Mayan Culture since I was in grade school. As a traveler we have explored many of this civilization’s vast and interesting sites. A little history lesson for you; The Maya civilization is significantly older than the Aztec, with the Maya developing complex societies from around 2000 BC and reaching their Classic Period peak (250–900 AD) long before the Aztec Empire’s rise in the 14th century, though both cultures thrived in Mesoamerica and influenced each other.
By the time the Spanish arrived in what we now call Mexico, the Maya people had left their ruling communities such as Chichen Itza (more on this later) but their descendants were still in the region. The Aztecs however had risen to power, and it is their civilization that the Spanish decimated on arrival. And yet today, many people of the area can trace their heritage to both Maya and Aztec ancestors.
Merida History
Merida’s history blends Mayan heritage with Spanish conquest. Founded in 1542 by Francisco de Montejo on the ancient Mayan city of T’ho, the Spanish used stones from the ruins of T’ho for colonial buildings, creating a unique fusion seen in its architecture. The city became a significant colonial hub. In the 1800’s the process of turning sisal (henequen ) into rope and twine created a very wealthy class of merchants. The wealth is evident today in grand mansions on Paseo de Montejo. Merida in the 21st Century is a vibrant cultural capital, preserving Mayan traditions, distinct cuisine, and colonial charm, making Merida A Cultural Gem in Yucatan Mexico.
Paseo de Montejo
Things to do in the City
Take a guided walking tour or do a self guided tour like we did using GPS My City. Highlights for us included:
Plaza Mayor – the main square of old town Merida where people gather day and night and festivals and events take place regularly.
Cathedral de Merida – right on the Plaza Mayor you will find a beautiful cathedral that graces the city, dating back to 1540. It is said to be the second oldest Cathedral in Latin America.
Casa de los Montejo – dating back to 1540, this historic gem has served as a mansion for generations and today houses a bank and museum. Pay particular attention to the ornate facade.
Cathedral de Merida
Casa de los Montejo
Mercado Lucas de Gálvez is the largest and most central market in Mérida, spanning 45,000 square meters and hosting over 2,000 vendors. Just steps from Plaza Grande, it’s a key destination for local produce, street food, crafts, and daily essentials in the historic city center. I have been to A LOT of markets around the world, and this one blew my mind. Don’t miss it. And while you are in the area, walk through the streets surrounding the Mercado, where the locals do their shopping. It’s like a completely different city than the tourism zone.
Mercado Lucas de Gálvez
Colorful and lively Mercado Lucas de Gálvez
Government Palace – don’t expect a bureaucratic building, this lime green gem is home to a fantastic art collection that you must not miss.
Government Palace
Art collection tells the story of the people of the region in large beautiful mural style paintings by Fernando Castro Pacheco
Church of the Third Order of Jesus – look closely at the exterior of this cathedral and you can see how it was built (like much of this city) with stones from the Mayan pyramids of Th’o.
Moorish House – a little off the beaten path but worth making the short detour, this beautiful building has been recently restored and expanded. Over the years it has served as the US Consulate, a maternity hospital and a private home.
Church of the Third Order of Jesus
Moorish House
Paseo de Montejo – Stretching from Santa Ana to the center of Merida, this avenue is where residents have strolled for generations. Home to many of the palaces built during the wealthy sisal period, it is also home to restaurants and shops. Be sure to check out Camara Houses, Canton Palace (home of the Yucatan Regional Museum) and Quinta Mones Molina House with a really interesting museum and self guided tour.
Camara Houses
Canton Palace home to the Yucatan Regional Museum
Quinta Mones Molina House
Quinta Mones Molina House Museum
Day Trips Outside the City
East
Chichen Itza – less than two hour drive from Merida is the UNESCO World Heritage archeology site of Chichen Itza. This complex of Mayan ruins includes a massive step pyramid, known as El Castillo or Temple of Kukulcan. Chichen Itza thrived from around 600 A.D. to the 1200s. Graphic stone carvings survive at structures like the ball court, Temple of the Warriors and the Wall of the Skulls. There are tour buses and private tours available from Merida. I recommend you arrive before they open at 8am to beat the crowds. The large tour buses arrive around 9am.
El Castillo Chichen Itzá
Chichen Itza
Ball Court Chichen Itza
Izamal – many Chichen Itza tours also stop for a brief visit to the “Yellow City” of Izamal. I would not recommend a special trip to Izamal, but a brief stop on a Chichen Itza tour is nice. We wandered the colonial streets and convent area, built on top of a Maya settlement from 2000 years ago.
Izamal Yucatan
Southeast
Cenotes – the Yucatan Peninsula is home to 10,500 cenotes (at least). These are a collapse of limestone bedrock that exposes groundwater. The term is a Mayan word originating on the Yucatán Peninsula, where the ancient Maya commonly used cenotes for water supplies, and occasionally for sacrificial offerings. The small town of Homun near Merida is home to multiple cenotes open to the public. You can visit these on your own, but we chose to go with a full day tour, which took us to four beautiful cenotes. We swam in the beautiful crystal clear blue water under ground. It was a great day.
Cenote in Homun
Fully underground Cenote lit with artificial lighting
Very large Cenote at Santa Rosa
San Antonio Cenote
Southwest
Campeche – this beautiful ancient walled city is about two hours from Merida. It is one of the reasons we chose Merida as a central hub to stay and access many things in the surrounding region. I have had my eye on Campeche for some time. This Spanish Colonial city, once a walled fortress, dates back to the 16th century. We really enjoyed the colorful town, walking the remaining wall, the cathedral, the historic fort and the Gulf of Mexico. Being on the sea, the seafood in Campeche is also great, and we had a marvelous lunch at Marganzo Restaurante. Campeche warrants a couple of days if you have the time to spare.
I saved the best for last. We visited Becal to see the art of Jipajapa hat making. This was my favorite thing we did during our Yucatan visit. Becal is an hour from Merida and we made the stop on our way to Campeche. We visited a tiny local museum to learn about the iconic Jipajapa artistic hat making (also known as Panama Hat). Jipijapa refers primarily to a type of high-quality, handwoven hat made from the leaves of the Carludovica palmata plant. The best part though was visiting a local third generation family artisan workshop.
Chari making a work of art in the cave. The wooden block hat form she is using was handed down from her grandma’s grandma
Here we were given a private demonstration of how the fibers are grown, dried, processed and dyed. Then lovely Chari, known around the world for her Jipa talent, gave us a one on one demonstration. We sat in the cool underground cave where the hats are made to keep the fiber moist while handling it. It’s difficult to describe how incredible her nimble fingers are as she created her works of art. Of course I went home with a hat of my own. Do not miss visiting Chari when you are in Becal. Ask your guide to take you to Lool Jipa Chari.
Fibers used for the hats
The colors are made from natural dyes
Press molds are used for certain hats
My new work of art
Eating and Sleeping
We spent five night in Merida. The Casa Continental Hotel in the Santa Ana neighborhood of the historic center was a great find. Just outside the busiest area, but close enough to walk to everything. Really kind staff and the rooms were just beautiful. We paid just over $70 USD per night.
Casa Continental
Rooftop pool at Casa Continental
Lobby at Casa Continental
Breakfast
We opted most mornings to have fruit and yogurt in our room. We did have an amazing breakfast on our first morning, right across the street from our hotel at Marmalade. Highly recommend.
Chilaquiles at Marmalade
Mexican Hot Chocolate at Marmalade
Lunch
It’s always good to eat where the locals eat and we had amazing, cheap tacos at Taqueria de La Union. We also enjoyed our first ever Gorditas at Gordita Dona Gorda. Watch the ladies make your Gordita as you wait. Fast, cheap, delicious.
Interesting new-to-us tacos like Turkey in black mole sauce at Taqueria de La Union
Made to order Gorditas at Gordita Dona Gorda
Dinner
We headed to Chaya Maya for an authentic Mayan meal and we were not disappointed. Favorite new-to-me foods were the dip made from pumpkin seeds called sikil pak. I also loved the melt in your mouth pork dish marinated in sour orange and achiote called Cochinita Pibil. You must try these dishes when in the Yucatan. I found this recipe online and will make Cochinita Pibil at home.
Sikil pak on the left
Cochinita Pibil
We loved our simple and healthy dinner at La Santanita near our hotel. We ate here on our first night, and I was introduced to Lime Soup, a local specialty. The chicken and lime combination was superb. I highly recommend. Here is a recipe for Yucatan Lime Soup I found online. This is an easy one to try at home.
Superb and comforting Lime Soup
Our best meal in Merida was at Teya Santa Lucia. We sat in the outdoor courtyard on a beautiful evening. Instead of entrees we shared several appetizers. We loved the pumpkin dip sikil pak, sausages and panuchos (a fried tortilla stuffed with beans).
sikil pak
Mezcal and Lime
The courtyard at Hacienda Teya
How Long Should You Stay in Merida
It became apparent to us very quickly that there are many “snowbirds” or possibly full time American/Canadian expats in Merida. Not surprising as the weather is mild and comfortable from December to March, but summer can be very hot and muggy. The rainy months are June and July.
We spent five nights in Merida and we were on the go everyday. I think I would enjoy a full month in this pretty city, to enjoy more of the cuisine and culture. But if you only have three – five days you can see a lot, just as we did. There is more too, so stay as long as you can in Merida A Cultural Gem In Yucatan Mexico
Colorful door in Campeche
How to Get to Merida
We arrived by hired car from Cancun, but there are direct flights from the United States and Mexico City. When we left Merida we flew on Viva Air (a very inexpensive no-frill airline) to Querataro then drove on to San Miguel de Allende. Merida is becoming a bigger tourism destination and a new train has also been recently opened that connects Merida to Campeche and Cancun, but schedules are still limited. Learn more about the Mayan Train here. Private buses are also a good option for getting around within Mexico.
Merida A Cultural Gem In Yucatan Mexico
Thank you for reading my post Merida A Cultural Gem In Yucatan Mexico. We loved our time in Merida, our second stop on a month long tour of Mexico. I definitely can see us returning to this city for the culture, the food and the very friendly people, all at a price that is right. Gracias Merida. We hope to see you again soon.
Most restaurants have Tortilla Ladies making fresh tortilla all day long
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I have been reading a lot of memoirs lately, after taking a memoir class last fall. I’m intrigued by those who find their story and share it through memoir writing. And this is what Howard Steinberg, a New York based entrepreneur has done with his own story. Here is my book review Confessions of a Problem Seeker by Howard Steinberg.
Diabetes and Family Trauma
Steinberg’s story revolves around his personal health issues living with and hiding his childhood diabetes for most of his life. Additionally he finds himself trying to compensate for his parents own childhood trauma as Holocaust survivors – needing to keep their happiness ahead of his own.
Steinberg’s need to succeed beyond the trauma he lives an illusion of success as an entrepreneur and a family man. But he knows inside he is operating on survival instincts which he has done since he was a child.
Search for Peace
Call it a mid-life crisis or whatever you want, Steinberg begins to search for happiness. His spiritual awakening will help him through a divorce and business failings before opening his eyes to claiming joy in the second half of life.
Book Review Confessions of a Problem Seeker
The memoir is a bit dense and may not be for everyone, but if you find yourself searching for answers or navigating an unhappy mid-life, Steinberg honest story is moving and adaptable to many people’s situations.
***Three stars for Confessions of a Problem Seeker by Howard Steinberg
Thank you for reading my book review Confessions of a Problem Seeker by Howard Steinberg.
Why Cuba? Why not! We spent ten days in this surprising country, learning about and loving on the people and culture. This was our third time using Intrepid Travel, and I am sure it won’t be our last. Cuba has long been on our bucket list. Many Americans have trepidation about visiting Cuba, generally based on media reports. But guess what? I felt safer in Cuba than I have in any part of Mexico, or in any of the African countries I have visited. Frankly I felt safer than in many American cities, especially lately. Let me tell you about Beautiful Cuba An Amazing Ten Days.
Welcome to Cuba
Almost like a movie set, but it’s real
Support for the Cuban People
As an American, visiting Cuba means declaring your intention for your trip is for Support for the Cuban People. What does this mean? This is an American requirement – one of four reasons you, as a US citizen, can visit Cuba. The others are family visits, educational activities or professional research which includes media. Over the years I have considered using the professional research category as a writer, but decided we would rather do a group tour with a Cuban guide. So that is how we came to book once again with Intrepid Travel. We were not disappointed. Through Intrepid we supported the Cuban people by only staying in privately owned Cuban Guesthouses and only eating at privately owned Cuban restaurants and shopping at privately owned Cuban stores and working with Cuban guides. Beautiful Cuba An Amazing Ten Days
With my Salsa instructor Malinda
Colonialism, Revolution and Today’s Cuba
The history of this island nation is vast and complicated – difficult to cover in a few paragraphs. But here is my synopsis;
Colonialism
From the arrival of Christopher Columbus in 1492, Cuba became a key colony in the Spanish Empire, valued for its strategic location and fertile land. Spanish rule reshaped the island through the near-destruction of Indigenous Taíno populations and the development of plantation agriculture of primarily sugar cane and tobacco. Large numbers of Africans were brought to the island as slaves to work these plantations. Havana grew into a major port linking the Americas and Europe, while wealth and power remained concentrated among colonial elites loyal to Spain. By the nineteenth century, economic dependence on sugar and slavery fueled social tensions and inspired independence movements. Finally formal independence from Spain came in 1898—though only after U.S. military intervention in the Spanish-American War.
Colonial era buildings are crumbling in Havana
Revolution
In the twentieth century, Cuba’s political trajectory was marked by strong U.S. influence, economic inequality, and authoritarian rule under leaders such as Fulgencio Batista. Although Batista began as a revolutionary, he quickly betrayed the people and became a dictator creating hardships for average Cubans, while creating wealth for the Spanish-descended elite and the US Mafia. These conditions led to the Cuban Revolution of 1959, which brought Fidel Castro to power.
Fidel Castro (Wikipedia)
Today
Castro transformed Cuba into a socialist state aligned with the Soviet Union. The revolution dramatically altered Cuban society through land reform, nationalization, and expanded education and healthcare. Though Castro curtailed political freedoms of average Cubans, most Cubans believe his policies of education and healthcare were good for the country. After the Soviet collapse, Cuba endured severe economic hardship yet maintained its socialist system, and today it continues to navigate gradual economic reforms (see below), strained relations with the United States, and ongoing debates about political change and national identity.
Revolution Square and the Presidential Offices
Western Cuba
During my ten day visit we covered a large portion of the western half of the island of Cuba. We did not venture east of Trinidad. See map. Cuba is about the same size of Switzerland and is the largest Caribbean island. Roughly 42,800 square miles, it is comparable in size to U.S. states like Virginia, slightly larger than Tennessee, and a bit bigger than Maine.
The area of Cuba our tour covered
Cuba is only 90 miles from Florida
Things to Know
We traveled in a nice bus (Chinese made) on mostly comfortable roads, although some of the mountain roads were a bit rough. We have seen much worse though in other countries. Four major issues we noticed as visitors;
1. Blackouts due to an aging infrastructure and lack of fuel due to embargoes. Some cities are completely left in the dark, and businesses, including guesthouses we stayed at, must resort to generators and solar but these are expensive and difficult to acquire.
2. Gas shortages – most people don’t own cars, but trucks, buses and cars are all facing a gas shortage which will get much worse with the situation in Venezuela. Cuba relies heavily on oil from Venezuela.
3. Lack of internet in much of the island. Even major cities like Havana have internet service that is plagued with outages and the country has no solutions currently in the works.
4. Finally and the most difficult is all transactions need to be made in cash. No American credit cards are accepted in Cuba. And your American ATM card will not work in Cuba, even if you can find a working ATM. You must bring US Dollars and exchange them in the country for Cuban Pesos. US dollars are accepted in Cuba, but they must be clean bills in perfect condition.
You must be prepared for these issues if you visit this island nation. It was all worth it though to experience Beautiful Cuba An Amazing Ten Days.
One of our favorite guesthouses in Vinales
Barack Obama and the Cuban Thaw
President Barack Obama made a historic visit to Cuba from March 20-22, 2016, becoming the first sitting U.S. president in 88 years to do so. His visit signaled a new era of normalized relations after decades of hostility. Obama’s visit included a visit with Cuban leader like Raul Castro, a televised address to the Cuban people, and a focus on human rights and ending the U.S. embargo. The trip marked the peak of the “Cuban thaw,” leading to increased travel, trade, and diplomatic engagement, though significant differences on human rights persisted. The Cubans have a great fondness for Obama.
Raul Castro and Barack Obama (Wikipedia)
Unfortunately this era did not last, embargoes have been reinstated and relationship between the current US Administration and Cuba are at one of the lowest points in decades. However, since Covid, more Cubans have been allowed to own private small businesses such as guesthouses and restaurants. These businesses are the ones American visitors are allowed to use as part of the Support of the Cuban People program.
Beautiful Cuba An Amazing Ten Days
My husband and I arrived in La Habana (the actual Cuban name of Havana) one day early just as a precaution for any unforeseen travel delays. We were able to book an extra night at the same privately owned guest house that the group would be staying. We enjoyed an amazing dinner with beer that evening for $8 USD.
Ancient fort at the Havana Harbor
Meeting our Intrepid guide the next day (Yummet) and the 12 other Americans on our tour, we knew we were in for a great tour. Our fellow intrepid travelers were fabulous, and as has been our experience with Intrepid in the past, our guide was fun, knowledgeable and on-point.
Most of our amazing group and our guide Yummet
Excellent Travel Partners on our third Intrepid tour
Havana
Highlights of Havana included UNESCO Old Town walking tour, four important squares of the colonial period including the Cathedral Square, Entertainment Square, San Francisco Square and Revolutionary Square. You can’t visit Havana without a driving tour in the beautiful and historic old cars of Havana (learn about these cars here). We toured the Callejon de Hamel where we learned about the local Afro Cuban community and the sub-culture of Santeria. Lunch was incredible at Rum Rum Restaurant – we skipped dinner because we were so full!
Callejon de Hamel
Cathedral Square
Callejon de Hamel
1940’s era Chevrolet
Definitely a show-stopper
Enjoyed our tour in the ’48 Chevy Convertible. Here we are in Revolution Square
Heading West
Into our comfortable bus with guide-extraordinaire Yummet and our incredible driver Marcos we go. Today we head west towards the darling town of Vinales, but first two stops along the way.
Fusterlandia is a tiny bit reminiscent of Park Guell in Barcelona, but not as artistically stunning
Fusterlandia quirky and fun
We made a brief stop at Fusterlandia just outside of Havana. This neighborhood is completely covered in mosaics, a passion project of artist Jose Fuster. Quirky but also fun. Next we drove several hours west to visit Las Terrasas, a UNESCO Biosphere village, built by the Cuban government as a reforestation project, inhabited by local Cubans caring for the land. We enjoyed a wonderful lunch here with a beautiful view.
Las Terrasas
What a view
Vinales
Arriving in Vinales we were enchanted by this cute, sparkling clean and colorful little village. Two nights here. Before dark we took a quick walking tour of the village then headed to Paradise Farm, a privately-owned farm-to-table restaurant where we enjoyed a spectacular dinner with a view.
Sunset at Paradise Farm overlooking the fields of beautiful fresh grown produce
Spectacular meal at Paradise Farm
Next day was a busy and fun one. Starting with a beautiful walk into the astonishing Valle de Vinales National Park with a local guide. Our walk took us to a privately owned coffee plantation where we learned about Cuban coffee then on to a privately owned Tobacco farm where we learned about growing and producing tobacco and the famous Cuban cigars.
Entering the National Park on foot
Of course the coffee was my favorite part
Getting a lesson on local coffee culture
Learning the fine art of Cigar rolling
Arne imbibing in fresh rolled cigar
Back on the bus to Mirador Balcon del Valle where we continued our agricultural theme of this beautiful valley with a cooking class using locally grown produce of sweet potatoes, yucca,cassava, papaya, guava, onion, garlic, and more. It was fresh, healthy and delicious, as was all the food we ate in Cuba. After that big meal we ended our visit to beautiful Vinales learning how to Salsa dance! Hot and sweaty and fun!
Loved our cooking class at Mirador Balcon de Valle
A first for us, Arne and I Salsa together.
Cienfuegos
From Vinales to Cienfuegos was our longest bus ride day. We were kept entertained onboard the bus with an incredible documentary series from Netflix about Cuban history. Fascinating and helpful. In the late afternoon we arrived the famous Bay of Pigs, site of the 1961 failed US invasion. Here we had an opportunity to swim in the Caribbean or just lounge on the beautiful beach before arriving in Cienfuegos and our lovely guest house for one night. In the morning before departing we had a walking tour of the beautiful colonial town of Cienfuegos with free time to shop, see the museum and have some fabulous coffee before departing on to Trinidad.
Bay of Pigs was stunning. I had never imaged it so beautiful.
Bay of Pigs – Beautiful Cuba An Amazing Ten Days
Cienfuegos town square and Cathedral. Beautiful Spanish Colonial town
Trinidad
Driving from Cienfuegos to Trinidad meant going over the Topes de Coyantes mountains, where we encountered the only poor road conditions of our tour. Our driver Marcos was amazing and we barely noticed. High in the mountains we stopped at a tiny privately-owned coffee growing roadside restaurant called Mileidy’s. Here we learned more about how the locals grow and process the local Arabica beans. We also enjoyed possibly the best, yet simple and locally sourced lunch. Adios to our new friends and then on to Trinidad.
From green to bean to coffee dream
Beans drying in the sun
We loved our beautiful privately-owned guesthouse in Trinidad, where we had the best WiFi of the entire trip. Right in the old town area of the beautiful Spanish Colonial town of Trinidad. We took a sunset stroll of the old town before enjoying the famous local drink of Canchanchara (yum) followed by dinner at Los Conspiradores.
Loved the rooftop terraces at our Trinidad Guesthouse
Sunset walk on our first night in Trinidad
Beautiful presentation of drinks and food in Trinidad
Famous Cuban cocktail called Canchanchara
Trinidad Day Two
Next morning our guide took us to two museums where we learned more Spanish Colonial history – the Architecture Museum and the Romantic Museum. We had some free time to shop for the beautiful local traditional Trinidad embroidery. I fell in love with it and bought several items. In the afternoon we headed for swim and sun at Ancon beach which included an incredible catered picnic lunch. That evening we were not hungry, so we watched the sunset from a rooftop bar and then enjoyed an early to bed.
Learning the Spanish Colonial Architecture history
Courtyard in historic colonial homes
The Cuban people are talented and resourceful. This embroidery style began when Sugar Cane plantations were abandoned and slaves needed to earn money
The water was warm and the sun was a nice break from touring
Fabulous catered lunch
Enjoying Sunset on the terrace of Rin Tin Tin Bar
Trinidad Sunset day two
Santa Clara
It’s our last full day in Cuba as we make our way back west towards Havana. We stop in Santa Clara to learn about Che Guevera. Ernesto “Che” Guevera is revered by many Cubans as a true Marxist revolutionary whose life was dedicated to overturning colonial and US intervention in Latin American countries. He was a brilliant but complicated man who is both revered and reviled depending on which camp you sit in. Because he died young at the hands of CIA-sponsored action in Bolivia, he has become a martyr and the Cuban government has built a small museum, which includes a mausoleum and statue in his memory. We visited this place in Santa Clara before continuing on to Havana.
Memorial to Che Guevera
Che Guevera
Farewell
Back in Havana our final night. We have become good friends with the group and our leaders and we are sad to say goodbye. Tonight though we celebrate with a show and dinner with the famous Buena Vista Social Club. Dinner was amazing but the show was the highlight – lively and interesting with lots of audience participation. Unfortunately not many photos of us actually on stage, you will have to take my word for it. 🙂
These two were incredible. I got to dance with this man and he was so amazing. But in case you are wondering…that’s not me dancing in this photo. LOL
Lobster is very common in Cuba, this one I had on our final night.
Buena Vista Social Club
It was midnight before we went to bed, and my alarm went off at 4:30am for our flight to Cancun. It was all worth it though. A remarkable ten days, learning about this country and removing some of the mystery and misconceptions. I loved its colorful culture, began to understand it’s difficult history and most of all learned to respect it’s resilient people. Beautiful Cuba An Amazing Ten Days.
As usual Intrepid Travel only hires the best – our guide Yummet and our Driver Marcos
Yes You Should
Step out of your box and come to Cuba. Intrepid Travel is a great way to experience a place unlike anywhere else I have ever been. And that is saying something. Put aside your fears and preconceived notions, because I can tell you, you will be pleasantly surprised. Educational, entertaining and safe. Delicious, colorful and enlightening. The culture is musical and bright. The people are talented and patriotic. Cuba is welcoming and fascinating. I have absolutely no regrets. Muchos Gracias Cuba. Viva la Cuba!
Havana full of surprises
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Amy Meyerson is a new to me author, but she has three other highly acclaimed novels. Water Lies was a fast paced and easy read. Here is my book review Water Lies by Amy Meyerson.
This novel was gifted to me by MB Communications in return for my honest review.
Motherhood
At its essence, this book is about Motherhood. But cleverly disguised as a murder-mystery. Set in the Venice Canals area of Los Angeles, with its posh homes and wealthy families, we meet Tessa. A young, pregnant mother navigating late stage pregnancy with a toddler in tow. One morning Tessa and her little boy are in a coffee shop. Tessa is feeling vulnerable in late stage pregnancy, and living in the Canal area doesn’t help. It’s like a fishbowl, where everyone knows what everyone else is doing…and they are judging. Or so Tessa thinks.
While in the coffee shop Tessa’s son Jasper has a tantrum, when he sees and calls out to a young women he seems to know. Gigi. Geee Geee! He calls over and over. Tessa has never seen this women and does not understand her son’s reaction. Tessa leaves the coffee shop with a visceral feeling that something is strange.
Murder?
Just 24 hours later, the same women in the coffee shop, is found dead in the canals. Despite the police and Tessa’s husband Gabe insisting it was just an accident, Tessa instincts are strong. The woman’s name is Regina, and Regina’s mother Barb also does not believe it was an accident. Barb flies to LA to begin her own investigation. Tessa and Barb will become an unlikely pair as they begin to unravel a strange and frightening scenario around Regina’s death.
Book Review Water Lies by Amy Meyerson
This thriller is fast paced and kept my attention, even though there were a few too obvious clues that I knew immediately would come back later in the story. That said, this murder plot is an interesting storyline that looks at all aspects of motherhood including infertility, pregnancy, birth, maternal instincts and mothering of adults. Additionally there are themes of family secrets, infidelity and friendship. The story includes introspection on IVF and the fertility as business, in the United States and the stigma around it.
****Four stars for Water Lies by Amy Meyerson, released on January 1, 2026
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